Parent's Choice or Your DREAM?

Dad: Son, What course do you want, when you will reach college?
Son: Dad, I want to be a Pilot, since it was my dream to fly a plane
Mother: Why is that so? please choose something appropriate like Nursing?
Son: Mom, it is my Dream!
Mother: Look my son, I have so many friends in abroad who are now earning a thousand dollars and even it reached almost a million pesos. Because they are NURSES. Please take this Course it is good for you.
Dad: Go follow what your mom tells you since it is your future.
Son: But I want to fly planes
Dad: No, Take up nursing!
Mother: Son please we want you to become a nurse because of the high income.
Son: Ok I'll just take it.

3rd year College
Parents? Why did you fail this subject?
Son: I tried my best but I did not make it.
Dad: This is bullshit! we sacrifice our time to let you study nursing because we want you to earn big in your future. And then you failed these subjects? how embarrassing!
Mom: I won't allow you to transfer to other courses but only NURSING! If you want to quit go and quit, And I won't dare to let you study in other courses.

(You may get mad at me but tell you what YES! THESE THINGS HAPPEN! It is not only applicable to BS Nursing course but to all courses Like Education, engineering, HRM, BS. Biology, Medicine and many more. )

We are all being pushed by our parents all the time, but I did not say Never Obey them or never respect them. The point here is we have our own destination, our own dream and our own future to build.
1st we must think is this road for me to take? or would I choose the other path that will lead me to my dream? We can't let other people throw us to the place that we don't like. We may passed the course that our parents wants us to take but it doesn't mean that in the end there is happiness and success.
God has given us a path to take, but we must always be careful and be prepared for the Challenges that hinders us to reach our goal, like our peers, difficulties, family, finances...etc. But challenges are always natural they are there they never sleeps but with you passion to to reach your dream will never die.
We must always understand our parents ambitions because in psychology the children are the extended part of our parent's human body. Therefore those things that they did not earned they will let you take.

Speaking of INCOME AND HUGE SALARY, (Oh I forgot, some parents wants there children to be rich hahahah bato bato sa langit) Do you think that it can lead you to true happiness? (yes, if you are an ambitious materialistic human being)Money can never buy you anything even respect. Salaries and income can be a problem but it can be overcome.
To reach your goal is always about the passion. God has given us the freedom of Choice so we are free to use it.
If you want to be an engineer rather to become a doctor just because you came from a family of doctors- GO FOR IT
If you want to become a Priest rather to become a Policeman GO FOR IT
If you want to become a Teacher rather to become a Nurse because you came from a family of nurses GO FOR IT
If you want to become a Nurse rather to be an accountant because your dad is a Bank Manager GO FOR IT

If you dream to become something victorious because you really believe that it will take you to greener pastures; WALK THROUGH THAT PATH NO MATTER WHAT! BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU TOOK THE RIGHT DECISION.
Here are the 3 things that you need to do

1. PRAY: It always works, Pray to the Lord to take you to the Path of Happiness and to help you reach you dreams

2. REFLECT: Reflecting the things that you need to do in order to have a better future, ask your self "Is this the Path of me?" "Would it take me to a better place someday?"

3. WORK: Work though your dreams, because through hard work our life will always be successful.



FOLLOW AND LIVE YOUR DREAMS!